July 3, 2017

What to do when someone is ignoring you.

“First they ignore you, then they laugh at you, then they fight you, then you win”- Mahatma Gandhi It is hard when someone ignores you. It makes our self-esteem low and creates a void state in our mind which makes us sad and distressed. There are a million ways to react when someone is ignoring you. However, it is best to maintain the self-worth without groveling as to why they are ignoring you. Here are a few ways you can behave when someone is giving you the silent treatment. 1. Ask directly as to why is the person ignoring you: Asking the person directly as to why the person is ignoring you is the best way. There might be a misunderstanding or issue that might have occurred due to a third person. Hence it is better to clear the air before reaching the conclusion. Sometimes when getting ignored, people turn to ignore them as well. Try not to do this and have a friendly conversation. 2. Discuss with a common friend about this situation: Discussing such issues with a third party will make you reach conclusion better than keeping it to yourself. That friend may give you some important advice regarding the situation or help you bridge the gap between you two in a positive manner. 3. Politeness always works: It is important that when you talk to that person regarding their whereabouts try not to show any surprise, anger or shock. Be polite and remember, replacing anger with politeness can help solve a lot. 4. Saying sorry helps: Although it is a clichéd word, the word sorry impact the relationship for better. It will not make you lower if you apologize even with no fault of your own. It will only make the person understand how much you mean to them. If the person is deliberately ignoring you on purpose even after apologizing, then you should steer clear from such negativity in your life and understand that they do not want to maintain an optimistic relationship with you. 5. Wait: sometimes time is the best healer. So if nothing works just wait and see what time has in stock for your relationship. For more such content download Personality Development application: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.mayur.personalitydevelopment

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